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Comment 49 by vasi...@softgrad.com, Today (90 minutes ago)
To FIX SSL connection:
keep your latest ICQ.dll (from 0.9.8 or 0.9.9) -- no need to replace it with old version;
set server address to slogin.icq.com and port to 443.
Поменять сервер для входа на slogin.icq.com